I know me...I've usually been the one to say ILY first - I can't help it...if I felt it, I said it. It took *him* over 4 months to say those three little words - he did tell me he thought he was falling in love - but not ILY. However, after going through everything with "you know who", when we always told each other I love you when one of us left the house or on the phone, I somehow think I'll be a little more wary of saying it now.
Family is one thing - saying it to them is a given. But in a relationship, it may be more difficult to say it now.
Thoughts/opinions anyone?
Mirm