#1) The reunions are **FUN**. *g*
#2) You totally wouldn't do that! Your SEAL husband would be gone so much that you'd be able to do EVERYTHING! :) Frankly, I'm sick of taking out the trash.
My husband is in the Army and while he is not SpecOps, over the years I've gotten used to him being gone a few weeks here (going to the field or TDY), a few days there (when he was recruiting), and now 10 months "over there." A military spouse can't EVER count on anyone else to do anything for her/him.
#3) I've found that if you do your job well no kissing up is needed. Sometimes it works, but eventually you work for a boss that is not fooled by the brown nosing.
#4) We don't have white uniforms, but if we did...the cleaners, baby...all the way! *g*
SL