Yes, I do know what Tom said, but you didn't quote Tom then, you spoke for the group-
So the question begs as far as the SEALs on women, do you know all 2700 men(or whatever the exact number is)???
As for my SEAL friends (4) we've not ever discussed that - but we will now, however....... still I would never presumed to speak for them or the rest that I've never met.