But ... do you really want to be "squat pissing in some rice paddy with a cock swinging commando looking up your butt?" (combination of two different actor speeches from GI Jane... but definitely something that I'd rather avoid). (Modest, genteel, delicate flower of the South that I am ... oh quit laughing!)
I like working with men... actually I prefer it. But I also like the protectiveness on the part of both sexes for each other and not sure I want to 'overcome' it.